Unbearable Lightness, Portia de Rossi

unbearable lightness De Rossi

Summary:  The story of Portia de Rossi (Ellen deGeneres’ wife) during the time before she met Ellen.  The story details her transition from a teenager in Australia to acting on one of America’s most popular shows, ‘Ally McBeal’.  Her onscreen person was far from the body-conscious, anorexic, bulimic, distressed young woman who battled daily with food, exercise, and trying to maintain the perfect image.

Thoughts:  This just goes to show you can’t always believe what you see/hear/read.  Someone who’s life seemed perfect – attractive, rich, famous – was actually experiencing a horrific eating disorder.  Her honesty is jarring – if someone so successful can feel so negative about herself, what hope do us ordinary folk have.  Her rigid self-control is admirable, albeit for the wrong reasons, but the how and why she ended up almost dying from self-inflicted starvation makes for scary reading, especially as the perceived ‘perfect’ body image for young girls continues to permeate the media.

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Bodega Cafe, 306 Howitt Street, Soldiers Hill, Victoria, Australia

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Bodega Cafe, 306 Howitt Street, Soldiers Hill, Victoria, Australia

I discovered this little gem when my book club met there recently for lunch.  We were given a separate room, thus able to have our own conversation without the noise and bustle from otherbodega cafe review diners.  There were so many menu choices I had trouble deciding – not usually a problem, given my food issues, which usually reduce the options to one.  The servings are huge – so turn up hungry or bring a Tupperware container.  I had the zucchini and bacon slice, and eyed off the Thai red curry, and the corn fritters (the size of a plate).  The ‘light’ option – soup – came in a large bowl, with bread on the side.  All were delicious (I managed to sample a few leftovers when the others couldn’t finish their meals).   The staff were fantastic, and they’re open every day, so I’ll be back regularly to work my way through their extensive menu. Contact Bodega Cafe on phone (03) 5331 7626 

Sleeping Beauties, Stephen King

sleeping beauties stephen kingSummary:  Women around the world fall asleep and become shrouded in a cocoon.  Breaking the cocoon or waking them up results in brutal violence.  While the women sleep they exist in an alternative world with no men.  Meanwhile, in the ‘real world’ men are not coping as well as they expect with the absence of their female companions or colleagues.

Thoughts:  The latest offering from Stephen King (written with his son, Owen King) could have been half the length.  Lots of repetition and unnecessary tangents.  Not as creepy or horrific as some of his other work – thank goodness.  I scared myself silly with one of his books years ago and wasn’t able to pick up another for a long time.  Women existing without men is an interesting idea, and while some of the ideas were explored quite well, others were handled in a trite and generic way.  Not sure the ending was worth the wait, but it was an easy read (albeit endlessly long) and resulted in some interesting discussions with friends afterwards along the lines of “what would you do if…..”.  King fans should  give it a try, otherwise, I’d prefer a Scandi murder mystery.check book price here

 

Sorrel Soup

great soup recipesThis is one of my mum’s recipes which I ate regularly as a child, and recently felt I wanted the comforting taste of mum’s home cooking.   I was given a bunch of sorrel by a friend (along with some cuttings for the garden – another story) and immediately decided to try and recreate my mum’s soup with the sketchy instructions scribbled many years ago in an old exercise book.  Surprisingly (given my lack of real cooking skills), it worked quite well.  The taste was almost spot on.  But lesson learned – cut the stems off the sorrel and just use the leaves – the stems proved stringy and slightly woody, which makes for an annoying way to eat when you have to keep picking bits of tough grass out of your mouth.

I needed lamb bones for the base – the butcher tried to talk me out of lamb, saying it would be too fatty, but I insisted that my mum’s recipe said lamb (not beef) so he cut up some lamb neck, which turned out to be fine.  I shredded the meat back into the soup to make it more substantial, but that’s not what mum used to do – she’d give us the meat separately.  I substituted the potato for a mix of purple and white sweet potato, and left out the milk.  Don’t know why I’m bothering with the original recipe really, but it’s a starting point.

 

Mum’s quantities were always along the lines of ‘a handful’ or ‘to taste’ which is fine if you’re an experienced cook, but try the following suggestions and see how you go.

Sorrel Soup Recipe
  • Lamb bones
  • 1 onion, finely chopped
  • 1 carrot, finely chopped
  • 4 cups water
  • 2 large handfuls of sorrel leaves, roughly chopped
  • 2 tablespoons chopped dill
  • 2 potatoes, peeled, finely cubed
  • 1 hard-boiled egg, finely chopped
  • ½ cup warm milk (optional)
  • Salt, to taste

 

Gently fry onion and carrot until soft.  Add lamb bones, water, and salt to taste.  Simmer for 30 minutes, then add sorrel, dill and potatoes.  Simmer for a further 30 minutes.  Turn off the heat, remove lamb and bones and stir in egg and milk.

Mocha and Lime Café, 11 Green Street, Healesville

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Mocha and Lime Café, 11 Green Street, Healesville, Victoria, Australia

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I found myself in Healesville again over Easter, getting my fix of autumn leaves and pretty scenery.  My favourite café had construction going on next door (not very relaxing), so I went

exploring for somewhere else to dine.  I discovered Mocha and Lime by accident on my last morning (it was down a side street), and wished I’d stumbled across it sooner.

Great atmosphere, my type of food, casual, quiet, varied menu, with almost everything gluten-free.    I had the Spiced Brekkie Bowl.  I’d seen recipes for pumpkin hummus, and decided I would make it one day, so actually getting to try it was a treat.  Delicious.  As was everything else.  I felt so virtuous with my healthy breakfast that I ordered the New Me (Detox) tea to finish.   Hoping it would cancel out the Devonshire scone I’d ordered to take away, which I nibbled on the drive back to Ballarat, dipping it into the pots of jam and cream, and trying not to smear mess over the car seats.  If this café was in Ballarat I’d be here every week working my way through the menu.   Fantastic new addition to lovely Healesville, and somewhere I’m really looking forward to coming back to.

Visit Mocha and Lime Cafe’s website at: mochaandlime.com.au or phone them on (03) 5962 2288

Origin, Dan Brown

origin dan brownSummary:  Robert Langdon is invited by a billionaire friend to hear a major announcement which will change the face of science forever.  Before the announcement can be made, the friend is killed by an unknown assassin.  What follows is the usual race against time to find the killer and unlock the computer code so the announcement can be released to the world.

Thoughts:  Despite the formulaic story (all the action occurs over one night, religion is portrayed as the root of all evil, Robert Langdon solves all mysteries, with the help of the beautiful intelligent female), it’s a rollicking good read.  I had trouble putting it down, even though some parts dragged on interminably and needed a good edit.  There is always a small grain of something which lodges in the brain after finishing Dan Brown’s books and makes you think, and wonder, and worry.  Are we really headed for the sort of future he predicts?  It’s very possible, but I hope not.check book price here

The Fishermen, Chigozie Obioma

Book review The FishermanSummary:  Four brothers skip school one day and go fishing.  They meet a madman who prophesies that one of the boys will be murdered by one of his brothers.

Thoughts:  What an unusual story.   In parts amusing, horrific, and sad, it captivated me with how the brothers live with the prophesy.  As you would imagine, not very well.  There is much detail in the book about Nigerian life, which I found fascinating, and awful.  Made me glad to live where I do.

Well worth a read, and I am eager to see what this author comes up with next.check book price here

Americanah, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

book review americanahSummary: Ifemelu and Obinze are childhood sweethearts in Nigeria, who dream about a life in America. Ifemelu obtains a visa and moves, expecting Obinze to follow, but his visa application is denied, and he ends up living illegally in the UK. Many years later, both are successful, have new lives, and are back in Nigeria, where they reconnect.
Thoughts: Beautifully written, but heavily weighed with racism and how a black person finds living in a white society. I’m sure the experiences will relate to some, but the story and the experiences of both characters were interesting and I enjoyed the book so much I’ll read her other novels.check price and availability here

Websters Market and Café, 61 Webster Street, Ballarat

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Websters Market and Cafe, 61 Webster Street, Ballarat

local cafe reviewI’ve been here a few times now and tried various things on the menu.  During summer one lunchtime a friend and I shared a divine roast cauliflower salad with some sort of sauce that had me licking the plate, and the lamb and lentils, which was also nice, but forgetful, compared with the cauliflower.  What a shame it hasn’t been on the menu since.

My breakfast choices vary between the Seasonal Greens Bowl (greens, quinoa, almonds, halloumi, avocado, poached egg) and the Mushrooms and Kale (again, with some sort of plate-lickingly-delicious sauce that’s not quite sopped up by the corn bread).  The cacao chilli hit the spot on a cold winter morning.

 

But….one morning an unrestrained dog came into the café and sniffed around the patrons.  Bad enough, but the barista then captured the dog by the collar and took him outside.  Barista, dog and owner seemed to know each other, but from a hygiene perspective, having a dog in a café is NOT ON.  Do what you like with pets in your own home, but keep them out of public food places.  I watched the barista come back in and go straight into making a coffee.  No hand-washing or wiping took place.  When I paid I mentioned that I was concerned at his lack of hygiene after touching the dog, and without missing a beat, he said he’d used the anti-bacterial solution before he made the coffee.  I was so stunned by his immediate, and incorrect reply (after all, I had been facing him and watching carefully), that I let it go, and haven’t been back.  I miss the mushroom and kale dish, but can’t quite bring myself to venture back just yet into what now seems to me to be an unclean venue.

Visit Websters Market and Cafe’s website at webstersmarketandcafe.com

Harvest Café, 256 Maroondah Highway, Healesville

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Harvest Cafe, 256 Maroondah Highway, Healesville

Ventured in for breakfast one morning, on the recommendation of the tourist info centre, and was delighted with the outdoor courtyard.  I can’t remember what I ate because I was completely distracted by a well known TV personality coming in for a coffee.  He asked me if I’d finished with the newspaper, and I probably muttered something unintelligible as I passed it to him.  I then tried not to stare as he proceeded to have a coffee and chat with his partner, and discussed forthcoming work with his agent on the phone.  I wanted to go over to him after and say how much I admired his work and how lovely it was to see him in person, but he was no doubt wanting some anonymity and quiet time and I didn’t want to intrude.  But my little brush with fame has kept me going to this day.  Ahhh – the joys of celebrity.

Visit Harvest Cafe’s website at yarravalleyharvest.com.au